Dating a Divorced Guy is Easier with These Tips!
Timing – There is no correct time when you start dating a divorced guy. Typically, experts categorize a person who has been divorced within the last two year as a newly divorced individual. Such men are vulnerable, lonely and looking to be felt happier. You can easily identify a man who is over his ex if:
- He is not constantly trashing about the ex: Swearing or talking low about an ex clearly shows that the person is still not done with his past and need time moving on.
- He is constantly talking great about the ex: While there is nothing wrong in this, however, there are chances that the person may want to get back together. Such people are typically unable to get into any relationship with anyone.
- He is drinking more than a social occurrence: Look out for such signs. Divorced people are prone to drinking as they are emotionally weak or are out in bars or restaurants.
- He is jumping to get into a serious commitment: Such people tend to do this as they feel loneliness or are competing with their ex.
It is better to arrange initial meetings in public. Libraries, flea market, hiking or walking, a visit to a planetarium, concert, attending a convention, volunteering work or watching a movie matinee are some great places where you can plan your first few meets and also explore each other’s interests.
Wardrobe dilemma – Pick a dress in which you feel comfortable and confident. Wearing a simple combination of black and white and then accentuating the look with lipstick can do wonders. It is important that you dress portrays the message that you want your guy to notice. So, pick clothing that shows only one body part.
What to avoid talking – It is important that you know what kind of topics, sentences or phrases you should use or should avoid when dating a divorced guy. Using nicknames like ‘cute’ or ‘babe’ are a big no-no. Telling the person that he is the guy you have been waiting for just makes you sound desperate of a serious relationship. A divorced man may not be ready yet for a serious commitment.
Sharing personal stuff – Dating a newly divorced guy tip includes how to safely secure a subsequent meeting. And this can only be achieved when you find common positive interests. Hence always avoid sharing negative and deep personal stuff. Also, it is important that your guy knows about you slowly and you maintain a partially closed book status. It is a classic way of keeping someone hooked onto you.
Focus – Would you like to be on a date where your partner is constantly checking the phone every few minutes or is texting someone. Surely, the same applies to the rules when you meet a guy. You would want to focus on this person in front of you and to ensure that, keep your phone in your pocket or in a bag.
Avoid some specific food on your date – Food is just another means of spending some quality time with each other but dates can become really messy if you order things like big leafy salads, ribs, and wings, beans, spaghetti, shellfish, garlic, corn cobb, foods which have difficult to pronounce or the same food as your date. There is an umpteen number of options besides these. You can surely enjoy all such food when you are at home.
Pay or not pay – Do not get into this dilemma and always offer to pay or split. Divorced guys prefer women who have high gender equality.
Monopolizing – While it may be a little overwhelming to date a newly divorced person but it’s best to always have a dialogue in your conversations. Do not answer in mere ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Maintain a medium of healthy conversation.
Don't complain or judge – Make sure you tell your date that you liked the place, food, ambiance or décor. If there was something that was not good, then hold back that opinion.