Find Out How to Get Your Girlfriend's Friends Like You
Dating is no less than a well- constructed maze. Navigating through all the pitfalls and dead ends gets tricky, and oftentimes, frustrating. When you begin chatting with a girl, you talk not only with her but with her girl gang as well. If you are not careful, your girlfriend’s friends may be the cause of your breakup. If her friends do not like you, the girl does not like you. This is the norm in all close-knit girl gangs.
If you are stuck in this boat, wondering “how to make my girlfriend’s friends like me?” There are a few simple, low effort dating tips to not only make your girlfriend’s friends approve of you, but also continue a relationship with the girl of your dreams.
1. Be Friendly With Her Friends
This requires the minimum effort with maximum results. Show her friends that you are an approachable, fun, yet sensible, and understanding. When the opportunity presents itself, help them with basic tasks, such as moving a couch. Do not be sullen, unapproachable, or rude.
2. Know When to Give Her Space
Girls love some me-time too. As a boyfriend, it is natural to be possessive, but do not always be staring at your screen, wondering why she has not replied back. Give her space to hang out with her friends. Her friends will not appreciate a clingy man, who shows up to every lunch, and movie outing, or who continuously insists on texting her, keeping her away from her friends.
3. Be Aware of Your Actions
Know that anything you do will be automatically relayed back to her girl gang. If the two of you are ever in a fight, she will always listen to her friends regarding how she should behave. Girls are extremely protective of their friends, and if her friends have a problem with you, rest assured that you will never get your girl back. On the other hand, keeping a friendly relation with them gets you some bonus points, as you can be assured that they will say positive things about you. Being friendly and nice requires no effort.
4. Introduce Her to Someone
If one of your girlfriend’s friends is single, one of the best ways to earn some brownie points is to introduce her to someone you know. The person should preferably be a well-settled guy and not a looker who run across town. If they end up in a relationship, she will obviously be indebted to you for introducing the two. Give her some dating tips if she asks for them. This also gives a message that you care about her friends and are not just civil to them for the sake of your girlfriend.
Do not make her push away her friends for you. Your girlfriend’s friends should never feel like they are losing out on seeing their bestie because you have entered her life. Try to meet them all for lunch at least once in two months, and become friends with them. If you become a part of her friend’s group, you may be into the relationship for the long haul.
Making your girlfriend’s friends like you requires very little effort. It’s as simple as making a new friend. However, there are always some boundaries you should not cross and some conversations which you may not enter. Respect your girlfriend, respect her friends, and respect the relationship they share together. As the Spice Girls say’ “If you want to be my lover, you got to get with my friends.” Boyfriends may come and go, but friendships, they never end.