Successful Relationship Tips for Men
We all have our agony aunts and love gurus to guide us through the ups and downs of our relationship. But do you think that it’s ethical to go to a third person every time you hit a new obstacle in your relationship? Wouldn’t it be better to try, analyze and understand what the problem is and then solve it on your level?
It is the common understanding that women don’t like to be discussed beyond their knowledge unless of course, the discussion is about how amazing they are! But other than that, women hate being subject to criticism or handled by anyone other than themselves.
So the real question is that is it so hard maintaining a relationship that you have to go to a third person to mend your own ways? Relationships are not rocket science. They are not difficult to understand but difficult to maintain.
Here are a few tips for men to have their relationships last longer:
3. Don’t try to fix problems: Yes, you love to be the savior of the day. But not every problem has an outright solution. There are some problems that don’t require you to turn into Dr. Phil. You just need to support your partner through their tough times. You can’t fix every problem that your partner may be facing. Sometimes there are issues that may be rooted more deeply than meets the eye. If you try and figure out their problems and try to fix them, your partner will be left feeling like a subject of an experiment and not loved. So change that, don't be a mechanic, your partner is not a broken car.
4. DO NOT walk out: If there are problems, fights, misunderstanding or anything that is putting you and your partner through a tough time, do not walk out. If you love your partner enough, you will try and work through your issues instead of abandoning them altogether. Walking out will help neither your partner nor you. You both will be left feeling empty because you let your ego come between you. Stay and talk, nor problem is unsolvable if you just try and understand each other.