You may already have butterflies in your stomach, may just be intrigued by this special person, or you may also just want to know a little more and wish to go for a date with this guy. How to send him signs at the right time? How to make him understand he can cross the next step? How do you make yourself attractive and get to his heart?
Whether you have a crush or just want to unwind with somebody, don't let go of that special person and remember that flirting is a fun adventure, and you can definitely get there. Get some flirting tips, to the first start to know each other, and one thing leading to another flirt and get a date with this guy. There are a few codes you'd better know in order to get it rolling... Read on!
Make eye contact
Eye contact is always the first point of contact between two persons. In any situation, at the office, at school, in the street or in a party, the eyes speak out one's mind. The eyes show where the attention of the person is going. If you want to know if someone has an interest in you, turn your head and don't look at him for a moment, let pass a bit of time (until he feels comfortable looking at you without you noticing), and look back suddenly. If you catch him looking at you, you have your answers. If not, try again!
Also, looking at him means that you pay attention to him and are not insensitive to his presence. This is how he will get the message... It's the perfect way to give each other a kind of "mutual agreement". Dating experts suggest to look — and then look away — three times to get someone's attention. Everything starts with eye contact...
Smile and laugh
No doubt that when you want to flirt with a guy and get a date, your smile is your best partner! Allow your smile to spread down your face from your eyes to your mouth. First, you'll appear friendly and agreeable, but there is also a subliminal message hidden behind a teeth-revealing smile. Do you know that if, for animals, showing your teeth calls for a reaction of fear, for humans, it signals accessibility? Subconsciously, the healthier the teeth, the more the smile suggests a healthy reproductive capacity. Perhaps there is a part of the unconscious in what a smile suggests ...
Although in popular imagination a man does not really receive a compliment but gives it to the woman, who receives it (which comes from the act of courtship and chivalry from the Middle Ages), men do like to receive compliments. It boosts their ego and gives them more confidence, and they may need it as much as you do.
Of course, a compliment must remain very natural, do not analyze to find what you could say but allow yourself to flatter him. It can be something as simple as "I love your spontaneity" or "You're so funny" or "I love spending time with you" or you can even try a coy compliment! It also comes through using a positive vocabulary. It's always more attractive!
Your body speaks for you. Use your move and your body to send him a green light and tease him. Playing with your hair, lips, jewelry will draw his attention to them. If we tend to do it naturally, biting your lips gently will send a clear message. Let your eyes gently watching his lips. You may also tempt a discrete look from his eyes to his lips and back to his eyes, letting him know your intentions.
Use a positive body language such as leaning towards him and not crossing your arms, show that you are open and welcoming his presence. If you feel like it's the right time, you could also touch him playfully with a little tap on the arm or a hug to say bye.
Be a little suggestive
A little teasing, a charming smile, saying subtly that you are single, touching his hair, having an intimate conversation, quickly go out of the weather conversations and speaking about more sexy subjects, is a way to be suggestive. He has to get to the point where he will think "she wouldn't do that if she only wanted to be friends". Well... here depending on the situation and your imagination, you can send subtle, yet a bit audacious signs that you do want go for a date with him...
Make good conversations
We get to know each other and we really give ourselves attention by talking, exchanging, this is how we discover each other personality. Good conversations open the heart and help create a bond between you, to know a little more but also give desire to always learn more about one another. Throughout the conversations, this is where you will find something to bounce back and, ultimately, get a date if the way is clear ...
Men love when women are a little mysterious. Be open and natural but still keep your inner sanctum yours, don't reveal too much of yourself and keep him thirsty to know more about you. In action, it means that you are the first one to hang up the phone, you don't cancel your plans for being with him and leave a place for desire and keep him wanting more.
Be the Forward One
Do not be afraid to take the lead and go to speak to him. It's pretty sexy a girl who dares to ask for what she wants. There's no rule and you definitely don't have to sit and wait just because he's the guy. Dare to go and speak to him, ask him if he has plans in the weekend, take his phone number and so on... It shows that you are self-confident and spontaneous, which is definitely sexy!
We don't say it enough, but after all, what matters is to be natural. When a girl is natural and not overthinking and overplanning or elaborating tactics it feels really cool and flowing. Adding to that, confidence and good vibrations will make you really attractive! If you'd like to know him better, dare to write to him or go and see him, if you want to get a date, subtly suggest it...
After all, men love women who dare. Remember that to flirt with someone means that two people are sharing and communicating in a playful and pleasant way, creating excitement and arousing curiosity. The whole experience should be enjoyable for both of you, catch the flirting tips that fit you the best, train yourself and just enjoy the way!