Some of the Best Dating Tips for Women: Important Read for Women Who are Dating!
Ah, to be a woman in the dating world… all the mixed signals, mind games and uncertainty. What a thrill of a ride! Dating as a woman in the 21st century means not quite knowing how your dates went and still, even after the feminist revolution, feeling like the guy has the power to decide in most cases. To feel more confident on dates, have fun, and end dates on a good note, use these dating tips for women that you help you navigate your way in the dating world.
1. Wear something you feel comfortable in
It might be a cliché, but you really do look the best when you are comfortable. Before your date, pick out an outfit that you think looks good, and not an outfit you think your date would think looks good. That way, you won’t only feel physically comfortable, but also psychologically more comfortable and less pressured.
2. Don’t ask interview questions
"where you work?", "what type of work do you do?", and other interview questions are a no-no on first dates. Remember, you are trying to get to know a person's personality, not to hire them for a job. So, when you go on first dates, focus on questions that show you are interested in the person who's sitting across from you. Ask questions about their interests, hobbies, friends, etc., and keep a light attitude.
3. Suggest places that you can go to
If you think of a place that you like and that could be a good place for a first date, don't hesitate to suggest it. If you go to a place where you feel comfortable, you will be more relaxed and the person you are about to go out with won’t feel pressured to choose the perfect spot.
4. Do some research on your date
This is especially important if you are about to date someone you met online. A lot of people lie on their online dating accounts, as well as their social media accounts, so dig in a little deeper. You can use a phone book search or a dating background check directory that will tell you about your date's criminal history, employment, marital status and other important information people often lie about.
5. Do fuss with your phone
Even if you're not that into your date, playing with your phone is impolite and hurtful. So, leave your phone in your purse, and instead, try to focus on your date and the things they tell you.
6. Use your sense of humor
Humor is a great icebreaker that can make and your date feel more comfortable with one another. Don’t shy away from jokes on your dates, and from poking a little fun at your date. Make sure you don’t cross any boundaries that will make your date feel embarrassed. Just be flirty and funny so the both of you will have fun and won't feel the first date pressure creep in.
7. Don't drop hints
A lot of us don't always pick up on cues and hints that the other person sends us, especially guys. If you like your date, make sure you show it with a compliment here and there and an "I had a great time" at the end of the date. If you think the other person likes you back, text them over the next couple of days and ask how they're doing. If they like you back, they will respond the same way, and if not, you can move on to someone else.
Yes, there is still a great deal of awkwardness when the check time comes, but it doesn't have to be that way. When the bill arrives at the end of your date, take out your wallet and offer to split the check. If the other person insists on paying, let them. If not, pay your share and try not to read to much into it. Plenty of guys think that if a woman offers to pay, she wants to, and they don’t want to stand in her way.
9. Don’t be afraid to make the first move
The date went great, you're getting a vibe that the other person is into you and that isn’t quite sure what to do next. You don't always have to leave the first move to the guy. If you like him, show him. If you feel comfortable enough to give your date a good night kiss, go for it.
Dating is tricky these days, for both men and women. If you want to have fun on your dates, try the tips here that will guarantee you successful dates. Just make sure you keep yourself safe and remember that dating should be fun, and not feel like a chore, so don’t look at it as one.
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