Signs She is Talking to Other Guys
Dating can be a lot of fun. When it’s just starting, you go out, meet people, and get to know them a little. When you’ve found someone you’d like to meet again, you get to know them a little more, go out on a couple more dates, and hope to God that you’re not wasting your time. Relationships are tricky. While they’re loving and fun for the most part, there are certain things that start at home, that can potentially influence the course that the relationship is on. Jealousy is a green-eyed monster.
Most times, feeling a little territorial is normal. You don't want to see your girlfriend with other guys? That's understandable. But taking that out on her is the wrong thing to do in this situation. It all comes down to trust. In a lot of cases, you find that the woman wasn't actually cheating, it was just the overworked jealousy that leads you to believe so. In the few times that that's not the case, here's how you can tell whether your girlfriend is seeing someone else.
How do relationships work?
These suspicions usually start out the same. All is going well, she’s answering all your calls and calling you twice a day, she replies to all your texts almost instantly, and she’s always excited to see you. But somewhere along the line, she becomes more reluctant and you suspect that something might not be right.
In every relationship, there is that initial period of utter bliss known as the honeymoon period. There aren’t any problems and both parties are satisfied. Sooner or later, this period ends and you’re hit with all the reality you’ve been ignoring while you were stuck in this time period. What you do and how you behave towards each other tests the strength of your relationship. There are always difficulties that arise and feelings that get hurt after this period. Every relationship has to go through this. How you deal with your problems as a team determine how strong you are as a couple.
Infidelity can be a side-effect of pre-existing problems in a relationship.
If your woman is happy in the relationship, there’s a very little chance that she will cheat on you. If you don’t treat her with respect or take her for granted, you’re not seen as important enough to stick around for. Women don’t play games. If you want to, chances are she’s not going to entertain you. Women talk to other men when the relationship they’re in is not satisfying. This doesn’t mean she wants material things and expensive gifts. It means being able to give her emotional support, show empathy, and basic human emotion. Women are resilient. A lot of women stick around even when you’re really testing their patience. But there’s always a line.
On the very slim chance that she is seeing someone else behind your back, here are a few things to look out for:
1. A sudden change in schedule
A sudden and radical schedule change can mean that she is spending time elsewhere. It might as well be a change at work, but it could also be that she’s avoiding you.
2. She spends a lot of time on her phone
Again, this could be actual work or some other emergency with family or friends. But if your girl is using her phone more, especially while she’s with you, there might be someone who’s more important than you on the other side.
There are numerous other signs like sudden bursts of anger and displeasure, asking you to spend more time with your friends out of the blue, keeping her phone out of your hands at all cost, spending less time with you, hiding things that didn't need to be hidden before, etc.
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